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You know how it goes. You turn on the faucet full blast that's attached to your garden hose, but when you aim to water your shrubs, nothing comes out, except a trickle.


We know that the source of water is there at the source of the hose waiting to gush out, but it's being held back because of the kinks and folds in the hose. Solution? Unravel the kinks.


Our ability to thrive in life (or not) is similar to what's going on with the garden hose. There is also a source of well-being, and abundance that's wanting to flow through our lives. Solution? Unravel the kinks.


Human kinks take the form of thoughts and beliefs like: I don't deserve to be rich; I don't have what it takes; I was born unlucky; it's my bosses fault; I can't trust my husband; I just don't have what it takes to be successful. I'm afraid I'll get hurt by others; there's not enough to go around. How come other people have more than I do?


How do I know this? Because when I've deliberately tried to unravel a kink in my own life, money flows to me, creativity and clarity emerge, opportunity knocks on my door, my body heals, and life just seems to flow with more ease.


Conversely, when I worry and ruminate on things that don't feel good, when I doubt myself, put myself down, and become overly critical of others (to name a few), that flow of well-being becomes a trickle - in fact, it can dry up like a dessert,

If you don't believe me, try an experiment:


Notice your personal kinks, not in a judgmental way - just get curious. Notice how certain thoughts make you feel. Hint: Pay attention to how you feel. A thought that produces a negative emotion AND one that you decide to ruminate on, is a quintessential, authentic kink -- the real deal. Once you spot it, you can then decide to let it die off and take its natural course.


Living a kink-free life is not just about creating wealth and getting stuff, it's about getting yourself re-connected and plugged into a source of power that is your true nature and that wants to work and support you. It's about plugging yourself into the mains so that you can experience the full force of life. And if all of that just sounds a bit too lofty, just know that kink-free living is just a healthier, easier, and happier way to be in life.


We'll never be truly kink-free in life - it's just the way we're made. And for sure, your pipeline may not gush at full force all of the time. But become more self-aware of when those kinks begin to set in. Become alert to times of drought where your inner flow dries up and your personal kinks cause you to lose connection with your real self.


When the water does dry up, be kind to yourself, and don't frantically go looking in search of water. Just know that the source of water is always there - always available to you, and that it will once again flow to you as soon as you're ready to let go of your kinks. Just see how intelligently we are all designed.


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